Why can not I ask? You should give him an ultimatum?

Many people believe that an ultimatum could destroy a relationship, no matter how great the love, and the man next to you will take the sound when you put it face to face with the problem of marriage. And it but, like other myths about the relationships and interactions between two partners is pointless and is as confusing as it is far from the truth. Sometimes a man just ultimatum needs to wake up from dreaming to continue to make their life in order. So if you are already a long time together and no sign he would think of you wax your wife and you want it, it's normal to wear a mature discussion that ask him what he wants and he say what you want. On the other hand, we all know how hard life can be such a discussion for men and how they are reluctant to marry. (Some, not all). The way you put that problem is essential and we will try to help you with tips in this regard. Here you need to know:
When you put the question

      Each relationship evolves differently, the time it settles differed. Therefore, there is no rule that you indicate the best time to discuss a future marriage. There are a few details that we must not overlook. If the relationship has a short history of only five or six months, it's better to wait. Still go through periods in which you are familiar with each other and not know where you are sure of the next major step. On the other hand, is not normal to wait years and years to raise the issue of marriage. More specifically, after the relationship starts to go on well and you completely familiar with each other, you can talk about marriage. And this usually happens after a year of living together.
How to put the problem

     If you are not careful, may grant a flat ultimatum as a threat to your partner, making him feel hose is chained animal. To avoid such a thing, it's better to talk firmly but calmly. Do it only when you are sure what you want, after crossing a time when you looked at this possibility. Do it during a romantic dinner, so both to be relaxed and willing to talk. Question but in a direct as possible. Men do not really like when they give you clues and hints. Tell him that you see as an ideal husband, you see with him and over many years from now and you want to know if he feels the same way.
When giving him time and space

     Finally, do not expect to ask you to marry immediately. Does he need some time to analyze the situation and in order to sort out thoughts and feelings. Can you tell which are your desires, expectations, making them practically an invitation for marriage but you can not oblige, you ask. If he loves and knows what you want, it does eventually no doubt.