Looking for a man to a woman. 10 tips from a professional

Lisa Daily, author of bestseller "Stop Getting Dumped" promises readers to help them to find middle. The book is a guide to dating, gives the answer to many women: "How could I make you fall for me?", But must learn to know what men want from us. Here is a man seeking a woman
A. Show that you have a life of your

        That means taking care of yourself, pay attention to your personal style and find time to spend it with friends and family. Traveling to seek adventure. And enjoy the pleasures of life - from the desert to enjoy the ride through the park on a sunny day. "Do not make your partner so as to represent your whole existence," says Daily.
Two. Do not make the first move you

      This issue was debated in blood and still not reached a true consensus. But Daily says that from her point of view, no woman should run for a man. Instead, she suggests they expect the man to initiate and to plan meetings. Her motivation: if she is calling every time, she will never know if he is really interested or just a convenient situation for him. You can find yourself wondering what is your relationship to each step. Men are not programmed to think the same and therefore are best suited to chase, Daily says.
Three. Being sexy without look lightly

        That means something entirely different relationship earlier than when you are already on the road, Daily says. At first, when you make love only a woman should refrain from making comments that direct sexual auconotatii. It also would be flirting using only non-sexual touching such as to put up on the upper arm or even his knee, but with a light touch. When the relationship becomes more serious, and perhaps more intimate, sexual touch and public manifestations of the disease are more suitable.
Four. Wait to have sex

          The sexual revolution took place long ago and still expect a few "pure white bride" nowadays. But sex is still a big step for any couple. Daily says that many women do not realize how much sex changes the dynamics of relationships. When women have sex, they release a hormone called oxytocin, which some researchers believe that women make them feel closer to their partners.

         Daily warns that if women get into bed too quickly, they may have stepped too much in a relationship can not exist outside the bedroom. When you load the significance of a relationship, a man may take in pursuit. Daily's advice is to wait at least one month when you are beginning a relationship before having sex with this man.
Five. Do little things that show you care

         Daily has one friend who noticed that her boyfriend - salesperson who travels a lot - never has time to wash their shirts, so they always buy their new ones. His girlfriend began to take clothes to the laundry once a week. Daily or even cook for her husband. "He does not even know the kitchen there, but that does not mean they are not starving in the city."

        No, you should not turn into a person performs services for partner. The idea is to do little things for him so to get them to understand that you care and pay attention to individual's needs. And he should do the same for you! Daily says that her partner clean them every morning winter ice on the car windows.
6. Be sustinatoarea's largest

       Help him look good in front of the head, recommend Daily. Laugh at his jokes and help him shine in the highlights.
July. Not pressing

         This is important. Men have a distinct aversion to any kind of pressure, says Daily. Therefore, you should avoid it call or give them too many emails during the day, or clues about how the future should look like. In fact, maybe you should remove from the vocabulary word "marriage". "Men do not want to constantly take the pulse of relationship they prefer just to enjoy it," says Daily.
August. Do not eat crap others

        A woman on her mistress never accept behavior that is lacking. Men who respect women from feeling they can not get away with anything. If you know that you expect a serious penalty for serious violations of rules, such as to deceive you, you will meet even more and probably will not make it. And no you should not ever bother to meet with men who are already married or in a relationship with someone who threatens or physically abuses you.
September. A wise woman always chooses a wise man

       This means that you should look for someone who is honest and who you can trust. You have to treat you as you deserve. If you say will be a place to be in that place. By the way, chivalry is not dead. "Good manners are a mirror of how deeper that man is," says Daily. Also, you should have compatible views on money (that is number one in terms of problems because couples who argue). Having said that opposites attract, if you like to save, maybe you should think twice before entering a relationship with a guy who likes to spend.