Gender (is) sell well. A title is a reference that makes direct traffic. Is known and speculated hard. Yet, no inflation, no saturation does not threaten the market. A thematic website, a magazine for adults, a newspaper with news or pictures of sexual, will always have a certain public. User, viewer, reader. Large, not necessarily bad, rather confused, not necessarily looking for answers. For this there should be questions.
Women, fortunately, are consuming moderate to all of these products. Industry would go bankrupt if it were based on their interest, even visually. Men's magazines, Playboy equivalent, have not been successful. Performances
with an air stripper were rather sad, suffering privitoarelor
manifestations of falsehood, exaggeration, or mimicry. Heterosexual adult films actors are not. In sex shops, women do not enter. And do not think they give endless circling, trembling with desire to experience surprise or to make partner. Modesty or disinterest, does not matter. Sure is that women prefer in general to make love, not sex, and those not called love magazinasele shops. Because love does not buy. Sex, yes.
Bought
or legally consented with pleasure or interest, simple or complex, on
the run or leisurely, sex is sin to be potentially problematic. What was once simple and clear, has become complicated and ambiguous. Evolution? The roots of all problems in adults reached sexual history into account. Truth and stuff, so it looks good as a fallacy, right?
The fact is that, recognized or hidden under the carpet pudibonderiei, sex remains one of the major problems of torque. The
old euphemism "mismatch character", which reformulate acceptable
incompatibility in bed, is today a perfectly plausible explanation:
there are five types of sexual personalities, but of course, and mixes. Uniformity, and classes usually causes us anxiety. Already we are divided into genres. Women and men, with so many differences, and acquired data that everyone's life can become very complicated. But this is somewhat reassuring, there are behaviors that alcove, and one we still be found, even partially. There are explanations, there and offer relevant advice, ridicule kernels dilettantism.
That's why I thought that perhaps not superfluous to discover the sex of personality. Sign
and as you know sometimes, I do favor to consult a horoscope or an
astrologer, now add the knowledge of self and type where you can find:
insatiable, generous, romantic, conservative or anxious. Is of the keys that open the door with three locks to a quality relationship, long term, the same man.
Here now and types.
Insatiable
Seductive, fascinating, hungry for sex, you say he can not live without. He likes to run the game, to impress your partner to push the limits, but not to spare. Yes and request it. Experiment, explore, is creative, has initiative surprising, and expectations. And
when it's not enough, still likes to sting, give somewhat
understandable that he wants, to overshadow the satisfaction partner who
fainted after the last spasm, happy that he survived a marathon. Sex is essential.
He maintains a famous fire that no caste. It has rules, restrictions, prejudices. Is instead a trust in her talents. Checked. Can knock a man and pleasure, but also to ensure that there is no room for any other woman in his life. Does it create dependence, perhaps intimidating, though not what he wants. The faint-hearted or means may break down before her appetite and unbridled enthusiasm. Although
sometimes lose patience with their stable partner and is tempted to
încropeasca of ten, one, all she's the one who knows how to make a man
more. It
would be better to leave from time to time for a change, reins and
exuberant and erotic fantasy comeback simple and warm woman who is
waiting on ... misionarasul mighty good. Seven one shot could become a reality with a vengeance to reward mastery Amazon impulses.
Generous
She is caring and cooperative. Gentle and reassuring. Type who would do anything for a quiet life. Believes strongly that as a sure enjoying only to give pleasure, and get it instead. It talks about her sexual needs, not make a sound, not give any evidence if they like what is not for nothing. Convenient
for a partner who does not like surprises or work, but certainly
confusing to one who would like to turn them spoiling. Self-denial and dedication they can go so far as to prefer the fair sex, unilateral, long and tiring substitutes. This is called, in any language, excessive.
What can that not out yet, is that, unfortunately, such a stance does not guarantee peace or torque, or sexual durability. What sex, anyway? Sooner
or later, passing in the background of his own satisfaction, who gets
more difficult if any, will be illusory peace that you so generously. Frustrations, the right partner can not be blamed, it will hang about until they find a way to manifest. It would be better if he would realize before and would try not to be considered selfish, and she enjoy sex. Somehow to show your partner what he likes (it would boost) and you do not like (it would help).
Romantic
Sex is for her more than a way to express love than a means to achieve peak physical pleasure. Not attract sexual performance. She wants intimacy and romance, cuddling and hugs that, preferably, do not enter it for passion. Orgasm may as well not exist. He's right and even more so in warm soup romantic sex. Playful and naughty sex is not her favorite. Rather nestles in his arms than either the initiator of erotic games. But how long is love, is also tolerant of sexual appetite and requirements, because it has difficulty in reaching orgasm.
Just so it seems that everything ends too soon and he could exhaust the tenderness. Would
not only reconciles a man passionate sex, but continued to put too much
sugar and no spice, no one "normal" problems should not delay to
appear. It
would be better to move the focus of the occasionally even sentimental
in the flesh and combine with the passionate romantic sex. When all signs point that he wants something else, is the lack of inspiration to divert enthusiasm and love. If he wants to tighten thighs, romance should drop that just then to closely intertwine his fingers with his. Or, if it melts the desire to look nailed breasts, insisting it Gales look in his eyes. What's too much, too much. Many couples are part of romantic love, but lack sex. Like they make sense, not necessarily an apology, why some men cheat not to want to actually leave.
Conservative
Sex by the book, without flowers. Predictable sex is holy, off the beaten track is safe, tested and confirmed models are perfect. Comfort soul and body with minimal effort, this is the motto. Satisfaction decent, not earthquakes. Strange or not, all they scare others, a calm her. I like routine, familiar and feel offered by them - always feel he has control. In all. So and in bed. Where, if more than anywhere else, hates change. A partner full of ideas a panic. An insatiable as uncontrollable, so destabilizing, and a romantic applicant would be too emotional. All that for others would seem boring sex in the world, for it means "safe and fairly".
So it's not excite any surprise sex. Feel threatened or offended if he wants to try something new in bed. Why would they do that? What's wrong? If a technique has already verified that it provides guaranteed pleasure, why bother trying others? But this attitude can become long-term harm, because if some predictability does not hurt too much erodes senses. Maybe not a bad idea, slowly, becoming somewhat conservative courageous and inventive. To believe that a new road can lead whatever you used to get the old shortcut. Even
if perfect for it would be like him - to be interested in good sex,
planned, satisfactorily, would better take into account the reality
that, at least from time to time, men are tempted to change even when sex goes counterclockwise. Precision's tick can become very annoying at some point.
Anxious
Of all types, this woman makes its most worrying about sex. For various reasons, external or her, but equally influential, quality of sex is constantly affected by anxiety. Whether
it is pressure exerted by a particular broadcast that generate and
maintain conformity ashamed to admit that maybe are not as interested in
sex as the rest of the world (and modern society is overwhelmed with
all kinds of povesi, real or münchauseniene). Whether
anxiety is induced by negative self-worth, in bed and out of, the way
they look, a bad sexual past of their performance or fear of giving,
again, failed.
Paradoxically,
though he wants and likes to have sex, that kind of woman ends or avoid
it by all, either by exaggeration, frantically changing partners, to
(his) prove he is sexually active, that is in line with world . But the most dangerous trap may be accepting a harmful relationship that provides voluntary, self-punitive, to play the victim. If
you get to have sex with the wrong person, the wrong reasons, you can
not stop the degradation of confidence and self esteem, or depression
that are abused, used and worthless. Such a woman needs one, friend or therapist, whom I can confess to experiences that have marked it. There is another chance for a healthy sex life, other than exorcising demons from past emotional.
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