What is the role of suffering in our lives?

What is the role of suffering in our lives? Byes are painful feelings to the partner feel lost are different from the other side of the love we hate.

       We hate partner if we split it and get rid of love. When in fact we can live with love in his heart even if he is near us.
How do you not suffer?

     This is common question that people ask themselves on the brink of separation. Would do anything just to not go through this period of loneliness and inner struggle.

       Splitting active sense of survival and suffering is also a danger. Some of us disappear, some of us go. The moment about us and what we are.
How do you think you can run? You know where you going? You know who you are?

       Most of us have gone through breakups and if we look back to the image we have of suffering?

        If I look back I realize that suffering was beneficial for me. Without it I was not where I am now, without it I realized who they are and what they want out of life.
Suffering is part of our lives, and to avoid suffering the equivalent of "throwing water trough with a child too." It's how you feel pleased to prohibit live.

      It took me time to understand that suffering is to deny and avoid, if not impossible, at least difficult. And you know what? For life is composed of joys and sorrows, the pleasures and pains. They simply can not exist without one another, as there is no night without day.

        Furthermore, I understand that when we avoid suffering is like complaining that we are people. I learned that happiness is not permanent and that all you have to do is I'm glad I had the opportunity to live moments of fulfillment.

     Trying to avoid pain is as we put his head in the sand. It is part of our lives when we do try to cancel than to declare a war that certainly we can not win.

     What can we do? Take advantage of it so if you find to be sad, let yourself indulging this feeling. You want to scream, go into a corner and do it. You want to cry, do it to feel like you have no tears.
Suffering must be accepted and not rejected!

      If we lose someone is painful, but if you know how to turn this phenomenon, we can reach us proud with him as part of our lives, of our life story. One might think that I gave and received love and that's all that matters.
To avoid suffering is only suffering extra!
How can we overcome suffering?

        Just passing through it we can overcome, just passing by her inherent labor. Labor of mourning often not accepted because it means to recognize and accept the one who left is gone forever.

        We healed wounds, instead plunges us into sorrow, suffering instead live as part of our lives. This is ours, gives us a feeling that we have ours. Whenever you feel that something belongs to you all?

       Rather than deny your pain, put your limits and block your feelings, accept it. You could you say something like "I love and console me, but look for reasons to be happy and love, I Investec everything we offer in another".

      To accept a breakup means you give up a limited pain when wanting to live in pain the following reasoning.
"If you are unhappy then you have helped and loved more like a child"

      Some of us believe that suffering brings merit, and this is just a masochistic attitude. And hear them saying something like "if you knew how I suffer." In this way they think if they have paid a price so get what they want.

      What should I understand? Sometimes we get what we want without pain, suffering, crying and eventually to remember that suffering is optional, you our choice.

       Only the living can to mitigate suffering. Living it allows us to better understand life. Allows us to get in touch with ourselves, our needs hidden or denied, denied and frustrations with senimentele

      Want to get rid of pain? Unable to fight with her, why? Because it is a fight that you can not conquer. The more you try to get rid of it soon will be even stronger.
Accept it, do i place in your life, learn to live with it. Part of you. You can find it for the first time in your life when you have something of yours.

     Why not accept suffering? What happens if you go through that? What happens if you let yourself be part of? Are you afraid that you will die? This may be an explanation. You think you're lost without the other.
You imagine that you die. Stop for a moment and ask yourself, is my fear logic? In place to stop on it, seeks to overcome. Move on, experience it, learn it, fight it with new things that you bring them along.
We are like fighters. We know how to fight for a relationship, know how to fight for a better job. We do anything else for someone else. A fight with suffering is to fight with you and for you. There are times when we get back to us, we feel that we live really.
Even if the outside is cloudy, the sun is out after rain ...