In any relationship, at a time, will talk about the past. About your past before you know, about the life you took her about past loves and hopefully forgotten. Although
your current boyfriend will always ask about your former deeds, joys
and deceptions, driven primarily by curiosity, it is better that he
remain in the fog. Ignorance is bliss and, knows as little about your background will be even better for him.
Because in a relationship, the truth is not always the best option. Is it him when it comes to communication in all respects that concern you directly. But
past is past and before any relationship must draw a line and
completely forget what it was for you to devote one hundred percent
love. Should therefore be very careful when a discussion arises the problem of your ex or former lovers. You need to know how to talk about them and especially what to say and what to omit when the girl is your current boyfriend. Here
are some lines that are the most important things you should not say
but suggestions that use them to bypass answer without lying, protecting
him from harm but also soul who does not belong.
A. Never say things like "everybody loved him."
A man likes to think is the best of all whom you meet in your life, that is absolute male for you. I
like to believe but at the same time as your friends, your family, your
colleagues you like and accept it with you beyond anything anyone. Telling him about a former lover that your goose was loved more than him or like him, it will hurt and will hit confidence.
Whatever be the same sentence but the taste? "I loved but knew it right".
Two. It never says how well your partner win the former.
Your ex boyfriend was so skilled and resourceful that made each bag of money per day? You information for you. If
current friend know that makes less money than you're used to you, they
feel incompetent and will suffer again in Chapter confidence. Men feel the need to feel indispensable and they are absolutely able to support her with everything she needs it.
Whatever be the same sentence but the taste? "Money is unimportant as long as you do what you like".
Three. Do not never say that another man "you broke my heart."
Relationships come to an end. Many of these separations, do not arise at all as it should. It is expected, rarely happens that both partners to alienate and lose love at the same time. Your
current friend but will not accept the idea that you think of a former,
much more than you make in your relationship unwanted emotional
baggage. Telling
him that he broke your heart, you will only confirm to them that you
think of him and still keep those feelings, even if he knew he was a
jerk and you do not want and never seeing ail.
How do you say this sentence gracefully avoiding the subject? "We've all been hurt at some point but past is past and it does not matter."
Four. When you go somewhere, do not tell you that the former went there
None of you was born yesterday. You went before separate lives, each had a lot of experience. When you do something together, it's better to not say that you did with the former. Go to a restaurant? In a trip? Do something romantic together?
If however you say that you've already been there, you have done this or that, do not say that your ex boyfriend did the same. Tell them this: "I find that I was here once, but I do not remember when and why".
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